Jack Kornfield at su book Path with Heart, says “time savings is even beginning to replace sex as a way to sell products on television”.
Clearly, on how we manage our time depends our success, both professional and personal, but how to do the tasks in less time is really the only thing that can help us better manage? The answer is clearly NO.
One of the major obstacles we encountered when managing our time is not be clear what our objectives. Not being clear on what we do what we do. Y so hardly going to be able marcarnos a clear direction to follow.
Actually we have learned to better manage our time when, end of day, or our workday, constatemos so obvious we're a little closer to achieving our goals, although there are tasks that fell by the wayside without. But how do you get this?
Once we clear what our goals, we do develop the ability to select which tasks that contribute to achieving and which are not. Developing this skill is not something that is achieved immediately, of overnight, requires a lot of awareness and a lot of practice.
The next step, take action scheduled tasks on paper, is undoubtedly the most complicated, it requires from us the will needed to do the tasks that we do and dedidido assertiveness necesariapara say No to those that do not contribute to achieve our objectives, directly or indirectly.
Nietzsche said there are two types of people, the victims and supermen. The first are those who are driven and are available to others, not fully recognizing their life because they are not the lead if the other. The second, are those that are the stars, directors and writers of his life. Have you ever wondered which group you belong?
Belonging to one group or another is related to how you handle the Yes and No in your life.
The victims are those who say yes when they mean no and say no when they mean yes. Supermen are those that are pronounced accordingly are your feelings.
Say Yes supposed to assume a commitment. We put into play our word respect. Say It is not related to the respect we have for ourselves and others we will. Sometimes we are unable to say no because we need to feel appreciated or others necesitan.Puede us it very rewarding to help others but if much unbalances the balance can do feel very bad. So before blaming those around you we have to wonder if we who are causing the imbalance. Certainly end, our inability to say "NO" will hurt us more than we benefit.
I invite you to reflect about the events for which you have used these statements, in recent months.
If aware of this you realize that part of the picture of your life you're not painting-career, Personal Life- may feel sadness, but the good thing is it does not matter because your box here 10 years is blank or with small strokes, but nowhere is painted, so you can continue working on it to be able to recognize the end.
The daily ask yourself the question: What is important for me now take me to get the future you want? Planificarte will help you and give you the key to managing your time well, thus leading your life.
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