Self-esteem is based on two concepts, self-image and self-concept; we both know and if we manage people and be inspiring leaders that build trust in other people around us, whether or not our partners.
Most times. the autoimagen we ourselves, us to see ourselves have generated in other, our parents, people, coworkers, etc ...; but what we are not aware of is that these mirrors reflect an image of ourselves that is slightly deformed and that corresponds to the true; are like those fairground mirrors in which we enjoy looking at us because we throw an unrealistic image of us.
When we feel rejected by others, interpret that we are valuable because "if I was a valuable person would not reject me", and instead of thinking that I'm seeing the image of me at that time is determined by the perception of others, I generate me a distorted autoconcepto myself and I get a label to accompany me all my life and prevent me behave so that it does not correspond to.
If we get carried away by the image we see ourselves in others and do not care about actually know, if we peeked at the bottom of our well and we see all the good and bad in it, the envious, the generous and also messy and creative, we can not manage in life. How to handle me if I do not know how it worked, if you do not know who I am and what my springs?
To have a self-esteem to 100%, must be known, not be ashamed of yourself, accept and love. Si tu mismo you to choose, you will not need to validate others and your power is within you and not in the hands of others.
All people who succeed in life have something in common, who are your biggest fans.