In one of the pillars on which rests the Coaching to achieve its effectiveness is the responsibility, that the client enters the process takes from start to achieve your goal.
It's easy to be swayed by old patterns of behavior that lead us to excuse, blaming other to justify why something is not working in our lives.
We can blame our family economy brittle political, in the bag, parents, the greed of others. From our failed relationships we blame our partners for their inability to understand. Not to promote at work to our bosses or our colleagues.